PoeticaL
cluttering the net since 2001

in training

Wednesday, Apr. 19, 2006
Remember in the past how I’ve talked about training your man to be what you want from him. I think all women think they can do this and yet they just whine and nag and those tactics do not train men. There are subtle ways you can “change, mold, train, improve…etc” a man. Nagging and whining only lead to fighting and leaving.



So, imagine my surprise last night when my husband looked at me and said, “I am going to make myself be what you want from someone.”



Wow, I’m so good I don’t have to train him, I just have to let him train himself. Perfect. I’m good.



Shortly after THAT statement he said, “What would you do if I actually read this entire book?” (as he picked up a fiction novel that was rather thick.) I probably messed it all up and am back to square one because I stated, “You won’t do that.”



*smacks self on head* I guess I'm the one still in training.
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