�me�: hi!

�him�: hey kristy

�me�: what's up?

�him�: nothing but rains coming down pretty good

�me�: damn

�me�: not here

�him�: im kicking back with a 24 oz beer and chatting

�me�: i see

�him�: helping some dumb ditz put a pic on her profile

�me�: lol

�me�: is she an ugly ditz?

�him�: naaaaa

�him�: she lives in sansford

�me�: NC?

�him�: no USSR

�him�: yeah NC

�me�: bradism

�him�: hehe

�me�: geesh

�me�: lol

�him�: keeps you on your toes

�me�: true

�me�: what kind of beer?

�him�: tall can of ice house

�me�: i see

�me�: drinking alone?

�him�: yeah

�him�: if i wasnt i wouldnt be on the computre

�him�: er

�me�: true

�me�: so how's the girlfriend thing going?

�me�: and.....I have another question

�me�: do you get mean, happy...etc or what when you drink?

�him�: pretty good, she did lie though

�him�: she has a kid

�me�: UGH

�him�: joint custody

�me�: HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

�me�: big lie

�me�: damn it

�me�: fucking people!

�him�: i dont know why ppl think they are going to gain by lieing

�me�: Rick lied to me too

�me�: last night

�him�: about what

�me�: I'm aggitated as fuck about it

�me�: he has a few scars on his chest etc

�me�: i asked about them awhile back

�me�: apparently ....he was in a bad crack deal

�him�: got knifed

�me�: a crack deal gone bad

�me�: nope

�me�: shot

�me�: in the stomach

�me�: twice

�him�: ouch

�me�: his brother Randy told me

�me�: cause last night I took Rick to the Blue Joules show

�me�: he was drinking

�me�: first time ever

�me�: he had two shot of golschlager

�him�: that might something hed rather not talk about

�me�: and........

�me�: thennnn

�him�: that aint your business

�me�: he gets all fucking weird on me

�me�: uncontrollable

�me�: I bring him home and he's asking Randy to go get him some crack

�me�: but doesn't know I heard him

�me�: then I ask him "did you ask Randy to go get you some crack?"

�me�: he says "no Kristy, I didn't."

�me�: FUCKING ARGHHHHHHHHH

�me�: I heard his ass asking

�me�: this morning....he totally didn't remember shit

�him�: he shouldnt drink

�me�: Randy told me "yeah he drinks...he does stupid shit"

�me�: yeah thats what Randy says

�me�: so now Rick says "I don't remember anything after I got in the truck so how can you think I lied when I don't remember shit?"

�him�: true

�me�: yeah well it still felt like shit

�me�: and i left the apartment and stayed with my friend Diane last night

�me�: i did my share of being lied to

�him�: he has drinking problem

�me�: no he doesn't

�me�: he hasn't gone drinking all this time

�him�: yeah he does

�me�: I took him

�me�: he doesn't drink ...but when he does..he gets all fucked up

�him�: just because he doesnt drink all the time.....when he does he gets stupid....thats a drinking problem

�me�: i agree

�me�: just saying he's not an alcoholic

�him�: i went to enough fucken AA meetings to support my worthless brother

�me�: incidentally...... did your girlfriend think she could hide her child in the closet?

�him�: i dont know what she thought

�me�: well I'm sorry she lied to you

�me�: sorry to hear that Brad

�him�: now she says 50/50 with her ex

�me�: how old is the kid?

�him�: 5

�me�: OMG!

�me�: a major brat age

�him�: yeah lol

�me�: so now what?

�him�: i have decisions to make

�me�: yeah read the deal over and decide

�me�: Rick=no alcohol or I'm getting the fuck out of dodge

�him�: its what caused him all his problems in the first place

�me�: exactly

�him�: is he too stupid to see that

�me�: no he knows

�him�: what kind of redneck is he

�me�: and it's partially my fault..no one really explained the problem to me and I took him out and got him drunk

�him�: no one forced it down his throat

�me�: i know that

�him�: he aint 5

�me�: i'm thinking that part of it all over right now

�me�: hahahahaha ....aint 5....lol

�him�: still serving jail time youd think that would be reminder

�me�: he's done

�him�: shudd up

�me�: last weekend was his last one

�me�: he sure forgot how bad it was fast eh?

�me�: i sure know how to pick em eh?

�him�: shrugs

�me�: <----*smacks self in head*

�him�: i wasnt looking

�me�: neither was I

�me�: i was introduced by a mutual friend...ended up homeless....and voila

�me�: add water..instant relationship

�him�: i never majored in chemistry

�me�: i'll be alright

�him�: the fuck of it is........she was right

�me�: right?

�me�: about?

�him�: bev said she knew i wouldnt have anything to do with her if i knew she had kids

�me�: yeah well...you know now

�me�: did she think she could slide a brat in unnoticed?

�me�: doh

�him�: lol i dont know

�him�: i think she wanted to buy time

�me�: "oh no Brad....that's just like a cat....only it's a CHILD instead"

�me�: buy time for what?

�me�: win you over...then display her baby dna project?

�him�: for me to get to know her

�him�: yep

�him�: some shit like that

�me�: stupid girl

�him�: you dont find many girls my age that hasnt been married or doesnt have a kid

�me�: exactly

�me�: but seems you don't find fucking any that don't lie either

�him�: they all hoes

�me�: lol

�me�: do you like her a lot?

�him�: shes a good person but i dont know her all her sides

�me�: yeah well I know one thing

�me�: she's a liar

�him�: yeah if she lied about that what else did she lie about

�me�: whatever other side there is.....doesn't erase that one

�me�: I've learned

�me�: I learned the hardest way ever

�me�: I met someone great and I fucked it all up by being a liar.

�me�: and I wigged the fuck out last night...because Rick stood there lying to me...of course he was swaying back and forth and I knew he was all sorts of fucked up on alcohol....but I will not tolerate a liar

�me�: the only thing that saved his ass is that this morning he really didn't remember shit

�him�: the thing was when somebody is under the influence of alcohol ........they aint themselves

�him�: asshole dont need booze he can lie up a storm on the spot

�me�: that and he started crying telling me "I'm not a liar Kristy..I'm not I swear"

�me�: Rick's not a bad guy....I do know that...

�me�: its just having him stand there and lie to me didn't go over well with me because of all the lying shit from asshole for years

�me�: you are right...when you say a divorcee is all sorta fucked up in the head for life

�him�: but did rick ever lie to you when he was sober?

�me�: no never

�me�: not about anything

�him�: there you have it

�him�: he has an alcohol problem

�me�: and today when I asked him about the crack deal he was upfront and gave me the same story that Randy told me last night

�him�: damn i gotta help this girl with her pic she just pm me

�me�: he said he's not proud of it, he was young and stupid and had a problem and gets stupid when he drinks...then said he wasn't going to drink around me again

�him�: he shouldnt drink

�him�: problem solved

�me�: i agree

�me�: it's always something isn't it?

�him�: i need to go

�me�: i want a good damn deal to work with

�me�: ok...seeya

�him�: take care

�me�: have fun with the 5 yr old

�him�: bye

�me�: bye

Note: the crack deal gone bad was ten years ago, Rick doesn�t have a drug problem nor does he do crack. He also isn�t a heavy drinker and Friday night was the first night I ever saw him get drunk since I met him 2 months ago. When he�s drunk he�s not aware of what he�s doing, he blacks out and forgets everything too. It�s scary and I have mixed feelings about it. The main feeling, he shouldn't drink at all.